Do you worry about what people think about you..?

Do you worry about what people think about you..? 

I think that it is possible to learn to not worry about what people think of you! 

As the Lao Tzu said, "Care about what other people think and you will always be their prisoner."

While it is human nature that wants to be liked and accepted, getting caught in trying too hard to win the approval of others is not only a bad thing, but also can be debilitating and lead to self-doubt.

certainly, it's normal to worry about how we encounter other people, but how important should it be?

On the contrary, it would be equally undesirable not to notice the thoughts and opinions of others. Indeed, having "emotional intelligence" needs to be aware and reflect on how we affect others.

So Where Are you going to be left by it?

It leaves us working to maintain healthy and positive self-awareness without preoccupying with how we look to others. If you are not comfortable with it, you may be troubled by what kind of energy you have.

Here's how to not worry about what people think of you:

If you have any questions, please feel free to contact me. Rather than wasting your time trying to please everyone-it's impossible for the main reason; striving to become the best person you've got by developing yourself and your unique skills, talents and abilities. You really dare to be a non-normal, people-fun version yourself, rather than hope that you will like people!

Notice your inner critic and avoid the second guessing yourself. Many of us imagine that everyone is judging us all. We tend to analyze the mistakes we make, berate ourselves for making them, and then assume everyone is scrutinizing what we do and keeping score. To be frank and contrary to what we believe, less people will spend their time with us, and how we do it. Most are too busy and absorbed in their own preconceptions to pay much attention. In fact, they are probably worried about how they are perceived by themselves.

What can you be sure of? Instead of judging or assessing you to take note of how you can criticize others, focus on the task at hand in so doing, you will not only act more naturally, but you will (by not having too much self-consciousness) turn your attention to the correct problem.

Work on the development of a healthy self-concept. A healthy self-concept entails knowing yourself, accepting it, or loving it if you are aware of yourself, no one can shake your fundamental belief. But you already know how to do it. You also know you're a valuable person who is subject to the same pros and cons, disappointments and successes, feelings and emotions that are the rest of humanity-that's fine.

Ask for positive feedback from people you trust. Indeed, it is difficult to be objective about yourself, because if you are still worried about how others look at you-and realistically there is always room for improvement, so constructive feedback is just to help. There are some signs that you are too concerned about other people's thoughts.

In the end, we are deceived because we believe that a person cannot be satisfied with the consumptive inhibition of life completely and freely. If you come to be bound by other people's thoughts and opinions, you are at the mercy of those opinions, and therefore it is natural that you may not be your genuine self.

Do you still worry about what people think about you..?